I don’t often mention my male in my life. But today, he surprised me. Valentine’s Day is coming and normally, we get each other chocolate and cards. This year though, the man surprised me with a beautiful sterling silver opal necklace! It is absolutely beautiful and honestly, it reminds me of those goddess spiral pendants. You know the ones that start with the smallest loop on top, then get bigger and bigger? Yes, this is like that with the largest loop holding the opal in the middle. It’s really lovely and means a lot to me. He knows I love my opals as much as I adore sapphires. Plus he got me chocolate ice cream! *grins* Tell me that isn’t love! LOL
Today is beautiful outside where I live. It’s not too warm, not too chilly, but a perfect day for me and Shango, my Siberian husky to go walking. We walked around the 6th hole of the golf course we live on twice today, which is good exercise for us both. While doing so, I reflected on what it really means to celebrate this holiday for me. Being a pagan, it’s not always easy to reconcile Christian holidays with pagan holidays, though I try to respect them all. Last night, my male and I had our Valentine’s Day meal- marinated steak, mashed potatoes, peas, green beans, homemade bread, and some Keel and Curley wine- Strawberry Riesling. *grins* We exchanged gifts- we normally keep it simple by getting each other chocolate. (It’s the best way to keep us both happy!)
For me, Valentine’s Day has been a day to celebrate love for love’s sake. It means telling my family I love them with all I have. It means spending time with my male showing him how much I adore him. But it also means not forgetting the other 364 days a year that love needs to be shown often. I laugh when people talk about not liking Valentine’s Day because of the gimmick, and yes, in fact, the original ideas that we do today stem from Victorian times when postal rates were cheap and sending love notes was simple and easy! But more than that, this is one day you can reiterate whole souled about your love for someone and no one will accuse you of blathering or trying to get into his pants or what-not. Today is a day where love comes first– something we as individuals, as groups, as nations, as a world– sometimes forget to do. It’s a day not about hatred, but about loving ourselves and each other– regardless of beliefs or where we stand on the political fence.
So Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you! May Cupid hit you right on the butt cheeks with the love of your life!