It’s been a while, but I’ve also been thinking on this topic for a while. There are people out there with slower sex drives then us sexual maniacs- and we often are with them because there’s a bond. Before, I spoke about how people with the higher drive can do things to help relieve the tension and pressure on those with the slower drives. This time, I’m reversing the process and explaining the needs of those with higher drives and the impact on them. (more…)
Today’s question was sent to me and I have to admit, it’s a good one because it deals with some concepts that used interchangably with others. So onto this week’s question.
Mistress Cynnara- What is a fetish? Do you have to have one to be kinky or sexy? — Fetishist in the Making, I think (more…)
Today, it’s all about quickies. Some are spur of the moment fuck fests. Some are well planned out for that one moment when you only have a few minutes. Sometimes quickies are the thoughts of one person wanting to do something that the other person will enjoy but will reject if given a chance because it might bring them more pleasure than the other person. Whatever the reason, today’s topic is about the quickie and how to make it work for you! (more…)
Today, we step a bit into my other realm- that of writing. In fact, as I’ve done some shopping today (I bought a new lightweight flogger and some lovely erotic BDSM oriented ebooks from Changeling Press), I realized it’s something I’ve not touched upon much in this area. I think it’s time for me to address the idea of the erotic written word and what it can do for both sexes. (more…)
Last night, I stumbled across a show that not only made me smile, it made me sit up and think about how I view myself sexually. What really made me sit up is that I found Gok not only intriguing, but real. So damn real and he just made me want to kiss him and hug him for being fantastic in how he views both sexes. The show is called “How to Look Good Naked” in both the US and the UK. So that show has influenced today’s topic of discussion.
We’re not all model beautiful nor actor perfect as we see on TV or movies. But how can the average Jane and John feel sexy both in and out of the bedroom?