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Switches – Double the Pleasure, Twice the Work

Switches…sounds like a piece of equipment you turn on and off. Yet, it’s a fairly accurate in description, though there’s more to it than that. Switches complicate things because they have submissive and Dominant personas within them. What’s hard is that they’re often forced to suppress one side or the other, unless they’re involved with another switch.

In the long-term, this means a sense of dissatisfaction because some of their needs are not met. Yet, switches are some of the most flexible within the play aspect. More »

This week, we’re taking a walk on the wild side of sex. For many people, the word Fetish means something taboo, something to be looked down at, but in reality, we all have our own fetishes–even if we think we’re Mary Jane Normal. But let’s look at the question that decided this topic for this week.

Mistress Cynnara- I have this thing for women in high heeled leather boots. The look of their legs, the way they stride about in them turns me on. My gf says this means I’m a fetishist, but I tell her I’m not into weird kinky sex. What does it really mean to have a fetish?– Signed, loving women in boots More »

Intimacy– whether it be a touch, sexual intercourse, or just two people in an open speaking relationship– it’s a necessity for human survival. Living without physical or emotional intimacy leads to many bad things. Want proof? Look towards the studies shown from the Touch Institute based in Miami, Florida for more information. People who are not given human intimacy from birth wither away and die. But how does this translate into deeper intimacy as adults? More »