Erotic Cyn for your senses

Today’s talk is simple- we’re going to talk about one particular type of sex toy. More importantly, we’re going to talk about it’s benefits for both sexes and the way to bring in a toy into a stable or even fun sexual relationship. 

My girlfriend has a secret lover- and it looks like a monster from outer space. She calls it her jack rabbit and personally, I’m thinking she might like it more than me. What is this thing that has her moaning in pleasure and can I compete with what it does?— Elmer Fudd in Frankfort More »

Today, a new question comes in– one that I had to smile over and one that brought back memories of my first time in that regard.

Mistress Cynnara- I love sex, enjoy sex, but my boyfriend has suggested that we bring some toys into our sex life to spice things up a bit. Though I think the idea could be fun, I’m not sure what are the best toys to start with, though I do own my own vibrator. —  Toyless in Tacoma More »

This story is for Nik. Don’t ask me how she got it, I think it was because she was online while I started writing the story– and because she prompted the opening line of the story. LOLOL I have to admit- this story grabbed me, captivated me, and I’m almost done with it– it’s a shorter novella at about 10k. This takes place in the near future or so– about 100 years after the end of the Mayan calendar. Times have changed and so has the world. Within this world, you’ll discover many of the problems of the past are gone, though there are some that still remain, though in less form. But there’s a new freedom in sexuality, one that’s led to the creation of sex houses and a multi-trillion dollar a year industry that promotes sex as part of good health. Enjoy! More »

Over the past 2 weeks, we’ve spoken about orgasms for women– both clitoral and vaginal. I’ve talked about how they can be done separately or together. We know that arousal is potent for both men and women. Sometimes it’s hard to achieve that satisfaction at the same time when men are the microwaves of the sexual world and women are the crock pots. Which is why sometimes while reading romances and having the couple orgasm together makes me giggle. I’ve written about it, but I’ve also used my knowledge of what it takes to make it happen. So, today, let’s discuss orgasms of the male kind. More »

Welcome to the second installment of “Ask Mistress Cynnara” where I talk sex, how to do it well, how to learn more, and some of the things you can do with and without a partner. If you wish to ask me a question to answer each week, please feel free to email me at cynnara AT cynnara DOT com (you know the drill). This week’s question is about anal play.

Mistress Cynnara, lately anal play has been getting more mentions, but no one talks about how to do it correctly. The last time my SO tried it on me, it hurt too much for me to enjoy. What aren’t we doing right? –Anally Scared More »