Erotic Cyn for your senses

Today’s topic comes via another romance author friend of mine. But what’s interesting, is the topic is one I’ve thought on writing about but haven’t really had a chance to really sit and deal with. 

Mistress Cyn- many men talk about their love of porn, and yes, some of us women watch it. But is it really good for relationships, especially sexually based ones? — Pornious in Pennsylvania 

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Today’s talk is simple- we’re going to talk about one particular type of sex toy. More importantly, we’re going to talk about it’s benefits for both sexes and the way to bring in a toy into a stable or even fun sexual relationship. 

My girlfriend has a secret lover- and it looks like a monster from outer space. She calls it her jack rabbit and personally, I’m thinking she might like it more than me. What is this thing that has her moaning in pleasure and can I compete with what it does?— Elmer Fudd in Frankfort More »

I realize I’m a bit behind on this week’s Mistress Cynnara, and I beg the indulgence. There are reasons, mostly physical, I couldn’t handle sitting in a chair for longer than fifteen minutes at a time, or standing for more than ten for the past two days, so I apologize for not getting today’s talk done on Thursday. 

Mistress Cynnara- You talk about sex and sexuality, but one thing I’ve not seen talk about is just great, uninhibited sex. No kink, just hot, erotic sex. Is that just out of style now? —- Curious in Cairo More »

Today’s topic is not a fun one. In fact, it’s one of those topics we do not want to spend time on, when we could be having fantastic sex. Yet, at one time or another, everyone gets sick. Sometimes, what happens is that something develops, and it changes everything in how we enjoy or can play in sex. Yes, this topic relates a bit to my other one, but it’s also very personal right now. More »

Today’s topic is courtesy of Mistress Nikita, who was so kind to help me with what to write about next. Though I have many topics, trying to find one that would interest readers– that’s not always easy. 

How do you get people, both men and women to slow down and enjoy foreplay instead of trying to rush through it? There’s an art to foreplay, and the results will amaze people if they give it a chance- Mistress Nikita More »

Today, I’m taking a topic close to my heart and speaking on it. It’s something I’m personally dealing with, and honestly, the more I think on it, I realize that others also are dealing with this as well.

When you’re not in top physical shape, or even top mental shape- how can you still enjoy good sex? More »

Since my flight to the Cold Frozen North is delayed til tomorrow, I figured I’d write a special bonus article dealing a bit more with submission. This isn’t just any submission though. We’re talking about a person who is alpha– a strong, controlled person, who thinks they always must control what happens and how submission can be beneficial to them. More »

Today’s topic comes from a friend of mine. One I’ve got to admit, had me thinking and wondering how to go about this and not gross people out and how to get people past the Eew factor. So what’s today’s topic?

Dear Mistress Cynnara- I’m a woman who loves sex, but it’s weird, either right before or during my period, it’s the time when I’m the most horny. Why does this happen and how can I convince my male, I want sex and to have him give it to me? — Raging Hormones in the Mountains More »

This week’s topic is one close to my heart and though not strictly sexual, it does deal with sex and emotions.

Mistress Cynnara- Recently, my significant other told me that he was polyamorous and that he wanted me and him to consider adding others to our relationship to make it stronger. I’m not quite sure what it means to be polyamorous. Does this mean that he wants another woman without any strings attached?– Poly Unsure More »

I’m sorry I’ve not been around lately, my health has not been great, so I’ve been spending many a day and night sleeping and trying to get healthy. But while doing that, I’ve managed to find that there are a lot of sex questions out there. Some that surprise even me, which means they’re on my list to do.

Mistress Cynnara- My SO and I aren’t really kinky, but we both enjoy what’s commonly called “rough sex”. Some of our friends think that we’re freaks because we like a bit of rough play in our sex. Are we really freakish? —- Roughing and Loving More »