Erotic Cyn for your senses

It’s been a while, but I’ve also been thinking on this topic for a while. There are people out there with slower sex drives then us sexual maniacs- and we often are with them because there’s a bond. Before, I spoke about how people with the higher drive can do things to help relieve the tension and pressure on those with the slower drives. This time, I’m reversing the process and explaining the needs of those with higher drives and the impact on them. More »

Today’s question was sent to me and I have to admit, it’s a good one because it deals with some concepts that used interchangably with others. So onto this week’s question.

Mistress Cynnara- What is a fetish? Do you have to have one to be kinky or sexy? — Fetishist in the Making, I think More »

Today, it’s all about quickies. Some are spur of the moment fuck fests. Some are well planned out for that one moment when you only have a few minutes. Sometimes quickies are the thoughts of one person wanting to do something that the other person will enjoy but will reject if given a chance because it might bring them more pleasure than the other person. Whatever the reason, today’s topic is about the quickie and how to make it work for you! More »

Today, we step a bit into my other realm- that of writing. In fact, as I’ve done some shopping today (I bought a new lightweight flogger and some lovely erotic BDSM oriented ebooks from Changeling Press), I realized it’s something I’ve not touched upon much in this area. I think it’s time for me to address the idea of the erotic written word and what it can do for both sexes. More »

Last night, I stumbled across a show that not only made me smile, it made me sit up and think about how I view myself sexually. What really made me sit up is that I found Gok not only intriguing, but real. So damn real and he just made me want to kiss him and hug him for being fantastic in how he views both sexes. The show is called “How to Look Good Naked”  in both the US and the UK. So that show has influenced today’s topic of discussion. 

We’re not all model beautiful nor actor perfect as we see on TV or movies. But how can the average Jane and John feel sexy both in and out of the bedroom? 

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Sorry for taking so long and leaving you men hanging. Personal health got in the way and is finally resolved. Well, for now anyway. It was hard to write about pleasure when you’re in pain and trying to get back to being normal.

 But let’s get back into that pleasure mode for him. Because we’re about fulfilling his sexual pleasure, giving him pleasure that he’ll crave for a long time to come. More »

That’s right, today we’re going to talk about male pleasure. I know most people out there are probably thinking– just insert cock into mouth and suck! But that’s not all there is to that. There are ways of increasing a man’s pleasure sexually in areas not too dissimilar to the female’s. So today, we’re going to talk about his erogenous zones- including his mind! More »

That’s right, today we’re going to talk about male pleasure. I know most people out there are probably thinking– just insert cock into mouth and suck! But that’s not all there is to that. There are ways of increasing a man’s pleasure sexually in areas not too dissimilar to the female’s. So today, we’re going to talk about his erogenous zones- including his mind! More »

Today, we’re going to continue with giving your female intimate pleasure, bringing her to a rousing orgasm. In the last article, we covered not only sensual touch, we also worked from the crown of her head to her delicious breasts. Now the question is– what more can we do to bring her complete sexual pleasure? More »

Today’s topic came about because of a short story I wrote on a push from a fellow author and friend. Once I thought on it and the story I created, the more I realized that in some ways, we’ve come so far being open sexual creatures, in others, we’ve not come far enough. Today– we’re going to talk about pleasuring your female lover. 

This is going to take two articles in order to cover everything. I hadn’t thought so, but once I started writing it, I realized I’ll be violating the Female Union and exposing secrets and deepest desires that most women don’t want anyone else to know about. So bear with me as we explore this topic in detail. 

Female pleasure- it’s all about her and her needs. We’ll talk about male pleasure another time- trust me, I doubt my readers will let me forget. The reason for today’s lesson is because of the need for us to all feel connected, loved, and sexually satisfied, even if there isn’t sexual intercourse involved. More »