Erotic Cyn for your senses

Today’s topic comes from a friend of mine. One I’ve got to admit, had me thinking and wondering how to go about this and not gross people out and how to get people past the Eew factor. So what’s today’s topic?

Dear Mistress Cynnara- I’m a woman who loves sex, but it’s weird, either right before or during my period, it’s the time when I’m the most horny. Why does this happen and how can I convince my male, I want sex and to have him give it to me? — Raging Hormones in the Mountains More »

This week is an interesting topic, one that doesn’t have just one answer– but many. But I digress, let’s start with the question and go from there. Because of the nature of this question, I’ll be breaking down my responses over this week, next week and the week after. Why? Because otherwise it’d be a long, long post to read!

Orgasms are considered the end all, be all of sex. But when you read many magazines, they talk about the various orgasms and how to get them. Yet, no matter what I try, I can’t seem to have them but only one way. Is this wrong? Or are there other ways to experience the joys of orgasms?— Orgasmically Challenged More »

I had debated for a while on what to talk about when it came to sex, sexuality, and more. From toys to BDSM, I’ve either used it, done it, researched it, talked to people to know more about it. So, I decided with the help of some good friends that I should open up my Thursdays for weekly Sex Ed with Mistress Cynnara. This means that you can email me at cynnara AT cynnara DOT com (you know how to make the email work!) and ask anything about sex and sexuality. Be warned, the responses will be detailed, if possible, and quite blunt. So if you’re squeamish or haven’t experienced much sexually, you might be shocked.

So this week, we start with a question: What do you do if you have a higher sex drive than your husband? What can be done so I don’t go insane with sexual need when he doesn’t feel the same? More »