It’s been a while, but I’ve also been thinking on this topic for a while. There are people out there with slower sex drives then us sexual maniacs- and we often are with them because there’s a bond. Before, I spoke about how people with the higher drive can do things to help relieve the tension and pressure on those with the slower drives. This time, I’m reversing the process and explaining the needs of those with higher drives and the impact on them. Read the rest of this entry »
Archive for the ‘Sex and Sexuality’ Category
Today’s question was sent to me and I have to admit, it’s a good one because it deals with some concepts that used interchangably with others. So onto this week’s question.
Mistress Cynnara- What is a fetish? Do you have to have one to be kinky or sexy? — Fetishist in the Making, I think Read the rest of this entry »
This week’s topic is about rough sex. It’s been a popular one with both men and women. Sometimes, it’s good to fuck and fuck hard. But many people wonder about the physics of rough sex and how to do it so it doesn’t hurt too much. So, we’re going to cover some ideas on how to roughen up your sex life without being sore for a week afterwards. Read the rest of this entry »
Recently, someone asked me a question and I realized that it needed to be answered not just to her, but here on my site as well.
Mistress Cynnara, my boyfriend wants me to dominate him, but because he’s younger, thinner, etc etc, I find it hard to dominate him like I think he wants. How does one dominate another? — Dominew Read the rest of this entry »
Today, it’s all about quickies. Some are spur of the moment fuck fests. Some are well planned out for that one moment when you only have a few minutes. Sometimes quickies are the thoughts of one person wanting to do something that the other person will enjoy but will reject if given a chance because it might bring them more pleasure than the other person. Whatever the reason, today’s topic is about the quickie and how to make it work for you! Read the rest of this entry »
Today is a bit special for me. Something happened to me yesterday and I realized I needed to speak on it for all those people who might think that fantasies are nothing but imagination. Yesterday, my male fulfilled one of my biggest fantasies dealing with him. He’s known about this fantasy for a while now, but though he liked having his fantasies fulfilled, he wasn’t sure how I’d feel if I couldn’t have my whole fantasy given to me. Read the rest of this entry »
Today, we step a bit into my other realm- that of writing. In fact, as I’ve done some shopping today (I bought a new lightweight flogger and some lovely erotic BDSM oriented ebooks from Changeling Press), I realized it’s something I’ve not touched upon much in this area. I think it’s time for me to address the idea of the erotic written word and what it can do for both sexes. Read the rest of this entry »
Last night, I stumbled across a show that not only made me smile, it made me sit up and think about how I view myself sexually. What really made me sit up is that I found Gok not only intriguing, but real. So damn real and he just made me want to kiss him and hug him for being fantastic in how he views both sexes. The show is called “How to Look Good Naked” in both the US and the UK. So that show has influenced today’s topic of discussion.
We’re not all model beautiful nor actor perfect as we see on TV or movies. But how can the average Jane and John feel sexy both in and out of the bedroom?
Sorry for taking so long and leaving you men hanging. Personal health got in the way and is finally resolved. Well, for now anyway. It was hard to write about pleasure when you’re in pain and trying to get back to being normal.
But let’s get back into that pleasure mode for him. Because we’re about fulfilling his sexual pleasure, giving him pleasure that he’ll crave for a long time to come. Read the rest of this entry »
That’s right, today we’re going to talk about male pleasure. I know most people out there are probably thinking– just insert cock into mouth and suck! But that’s not all there is to that. There are ways of increasing a man’s pleasure sexually in areas not too dissimilar to the female’s. So today, we’re going to talk about his erogenous zones- including his mind! Read the rest of this entry »
