Since my flight to the Cold Frozen North is delayed til tomorrow, I figured I’d write a special bonus article dealing a bit more with submission. This isn’t just any submission though. We’re talking about a person who is alpha– a strong, controlled person, who thinks they always must control what happens and how submission can be beneficial to them. Read the rest of this entry »
Archive for December, 2008
Switches – Double the Pleasure, Twice the Work
Switches…sounds like a piece of equipment you turn on and off. Yet, it’s a fairly accurate in description, though there’s more to it than that. Switches complicate things because they have submissive and Dominant personas within them. What’s hard is that they’re often forced to suppress one side or the other, unless they’re involved with another switch.
In the long-term, this means a sense of dissatisfaction because some of their needs are not met. Yet, switches are some of the most flexible within the play aspect. Read the rest of this entry »
Bow Before Me and Know that you are—- Submissive
A submissive is a complex creature, just as a Dominant is. The need to submit and give up control to a trusted person is their goal and their need. The stereotype runs to the gelded male on all fours, naked, and begging for mercy, or the naked female who is collared and serving her Master in any degraded way demanded from him. Again, that’s not reality within the BDSM lifestyle, though some have chosen to live that way.
Though you may see versions of this, again, bear in mind SSC. There are more variations than this extreme. What most people unfamiliar with BDSM don’t realize is that a submissive gives power over themselves to a Dominant, yet they still have the ultimate control. How? If they don’t like something, they say their safe word and everything halts immediately. There is no maybe when it comes to this kind of play. It’s either yes, no, or slowly, I’m not sure. Read the rest of this entry »
As most of you have realized, I have Wordpress on this site. That said, if you have a Wordpress account– that won’t work here. Why? Because I have the program installed on my site. What you need to do is register– creating your own name and password to this site itself. Then you can log in and post when you like.
I’ve gotten some people who didn’t know how to do it, so I figured I’d post a brief how-to.
So click on the Register, then start the process. I’d LOVE to hear from all of you!
This lesson is for a dear friend of mine who wants to learn more about shielding– both magickally and psychically. Many people talk about feeling pushed and pulled by people’s emotions and other things that aren’t seen. They wonder how can they protect themselves from this kind of incidental contact and prevent them from being overwhelmed. Read the rest of this entry »
Today is a me post. I try to keep this to a minimum because this is for my writing and not so much about me personally. But today is one of those days when worlds collide a bit- especially when it comes to dealing with me. LMAO Read the rest of this entry »
As people know, this story is to be for Aspen Mountain Press’s Del Fantasma line. I’m working on it slowly while trying to get a few other projects finished. On the plus side- I’m learning to write by scene. (A huge thanks to Angela Knight and Lena Austin and Cherry Adair for their help in learning more how to do this!) It’s meant a change in how I think and plot, but on the plus side- it allows me to pick up any scene and begin writing. The goal is to write regularly– the word count doesn’t matter– not just yet. So, let’s get to the meat of the story.
Warning- Somehow in the story (which is not apparent in the WIP file nor in my other post of the story) Dmitri and Maeyla have acquired a third. His name is Hiro, an Eastern Dragon of the Asarateru Dragon clan. Read the rest of this entry »
I laughed, I smiled and I’m telling everyone to watch this. Seriously. if you’re read my rant on Same Sex Marriage, then you know that I’m against anyone telling other Americans how they can live and love. It’s not right and it’s a human right issue– not a moral issue.
So, come and watch Prop 8- The Musical
And in the same vein– let me recommend Susie Bright’s blog which talks about Harvey Milk. It’s interesting reading and brings a lot to mind about Prop 8.
http://susiebright.blogs.com/susie_brights_journal_/2008/12/memories-of-harvey-milk.html
Let’s hear it for the Dom/me!!
Let’s introduce the Dominant first. The stereotype is either a leather catsuit-clad woman in five inch heeled boots with whip in hand, or the male in leather pants, no shirt, though he may have harness strap-ons, and sometimes wears a mask. Sound familiar at all? According to stereotype, they’re all about control, causing pain, subjugating their submissive until they’re nothing more than pets, right? Read the rest of this entry »
Recently, one of my dear friends emailed me about something that’s been bothering him. Now, you have to understand, he’s a fellow writer and ofttimes we use our emotional responses to certain things to help us in our writing but he asked about something that made me realize it was something to discuss.
Was thinking, the problem I’m having now emotionally is that I seem to have residual feelings of anger that won’t go away like the big stuff has. What can you do to remove the residuals? Read the rest of this entry »
