Erotic Cyn for your senses

Many people who believe in the four main elements of the Middle Ages- air, earth, water, fire, do not count spirit among them. For them, Spirit comes from man or a higher power, not part of the elemental focus. Yet, when you consider the balance of the elements, you can’t deny the way Spirit unites them all. Spirit is truly a neutral element- neither male nor female, but both at the same time. To people who serve the spirit, the element often has female properties they see more often. Sometimes it’s harder to discern the positive and negative of spirit, especially in how personal people see Spirit. But it can be done. More »

Can anyone recite the Preamble to the US Constitution? “We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.” More »

I was exhausted yesterday after getting up early on my day off and dealing with a lot of crap. But I meant to write up this scene. This scene takes place in the P3 Universe. Will it be in a story– don’t know. LOL But I like the idea of the sex houses and more importantly, being open to your own nature and being sexually responsible and safe. Yet, part of me wonders- what if you felt you were one thing, but told by tests that you’re another way? How would you adapt? Would you insist you were right and all the science was wrong? What if the reason you did think you were that way was because you were afraid to embrace your essence? Hmmm More »

Last week, we talked about sex toys- the kind you use on yourself or on your lover. This week, we’re venturing out slightly, talking about sex equipment- the kind you use to create a scene, restrain a person and more. Yes, today we talk a bit about BDSM sex furniture and how even those who are “vanilla” can enjoy them with their lovers.

Though I’ve not covered about BDSM, I do teach a workshop helping writers learn more about the basics of BDSM and all its components. One of those happens to be scening- where you act out a role play, use toys, and even furniture to create a mood and mindset within the person you’re involved with. So, what are some of the most popular pieces of furniture and how can they be used in less intense play? More »

It was what Prometheus gave to man, it brought them forward out of the darkness and into warmth- fire. Fire is a dual element in both nature and sexuality. Most view fire as a masculine element more so than female. Many of us think of Fire in a positive manner, one of healing, protection, warmth. Though we see occasionally the wildfires, the backdrafts that kill, this element leans more positively to people than most others.

I also consider electricity part of Fire as it takes electrical power– or sparks to be able to create the energy we use in our daily lives. More »

This will be a story. Not sure how long, or how it’ll turn out. But this story is for my male. Originally an idea he came up with to amuse me, to seduce me. Together we brought a bit of history, a bit of erotic fun and came up with the basics of the story. Only thing is- I know that for me to run with it- I’ll update it to a bit more futuristic fun with laz-swords instead of metal ones, but over all- the same erotic romp of fun. So– this is for my male- inspiration for naughty thoughts and naughty nights. Thank you, lover. More »

Today, a new question comes in– one that I had to smile over and one that brought back memories of my first time in that regard.

Mistress Cynnara- I love sex, enjoy sex, but my boyfriend has suggested that we bring some toys into our sex life to spice things up a bit. Though I think the idea could be fun, I’m not sure what are the best toys to start with, though I do own my own vibrator. —  Toyless in Tacoma More »

So far in our discussion of the Elements, we’ve talked about Earth and Air. Today’s topic is that of Water. Water is fluid, changeable. When working with this element, we discover the fine art of flexibility. When it comes to the duality of the Elements, we discover that Water has more of a feminine quality. This is why sailors often called the ocean and the seas as their “mistress.” More »

First things first– Congratulations to President-elect Barack Obama. This is a man who has been open and honest in how hard it’ll be to make changes in a world where the economy has plummeted. He’s talked about compromise and honesty that it’s not just as simple as him telling Congress what to do. But, I, like others who want change, aren’t going away- we’re going to watch our new President and make sure he holds to what he says. If you didn’t hear his acceptance speech, you can read it at CNN.com. More »

I was talking with a friend the other day, when the idea of “What is sexy?” came up in our conversation. Considering I write erotic romance and she’s an editor of said romances, it was an interesting discussion. But more than that, it made me think on how much is physical oriented and how much is oriented otherwise- towards attributes we think are sexy. More »