Cynnara Tregarth

Sorry for taking so long and leaving you men hanging. Personal health got in the way and is finally resolved. Well, for now anyway. It was hard to write about pleasure when you’re in pain and trying to get back to being normal.

 But let’s get back into that pleasure mode for him. Because we’re about fulfilling his sexual pleasure, giving him pleasure that he’ll crave for a long time to come.

We stopped where we’re interlocking fingers and sliding it up and down his cock. This friction based sliding grips his cock in various degrees, providing a unique sensation. I enjoy doing this, especially as it gets him wondering how it’ll feel when I go faster and tighter along his length. 

Ten- Using one hand, continue an up an down motion, squeezing lightly along the length, stopping at the head. With the other hand, slide under his scrotum and find that little area between the base of his sac and his ass. Gently with one knuckle, rub that area. The nerve sensation will increase for him and he might just start begging for release. For most men, this is one of their erotic spots. We’ve talked about this before in another article. But continue your hand job on him while stimulating him. His body will try to set the tempo to get him to come, but don’t let him to set the pace- you’re not done with him yet! 

Eleven- Now, it comes time to bring him to the point of desperate need. (Yes, I like this and my male can attest- I’m an evil tease!) Using both hands on the base of his cock, envelop the top of it with your mouth. Gently, suck. Some men are extremely sensitive here, some are not. If yours is– don’t suck hard, but using your tongue, lavish some attention on the head. If yours isn’t- then suck a bit more, but use your hands to slide up and down his cock. 

Slowly, ease your mouth down upon him. Every inch or so, stop and use your tongue to touch his cock that is in your mouth. Keep the hands sliding up and down in a firm, yet tight manner. This conflicting yet arousing stimulus will drive him batty. It’s one of my favourite things to do. 

Twelve- this is where you allow yourself to go with the flow and his need. By this time, he’s aching to be released and you’re wanting to see him. Give him a full blow job, making sure you squeeze and unsqueeze his length with your hands as you increase the tempo and the suction. By variating the suction along his length and the squeezing, he’s receiving multiple sensations that explode in his body. By now, he’s close if not ready to explode. It’s up to you and him if you wish to swallow or spit or just let it hit his stomach when he orgasms. 

Hopefully this gives you some creative ideas on how to play and pleasure your male. Sometimes it’s fun giving as well as receiving. Good sex takes practice and it takes a willingness to do new things. Pleasuring my lover is something I enjoy doing and for the most part- prefer doing. It drives my lover batty because it means I’m not asking for my own pleasure as much. But when you have times when you give only to each other and not for yourself, it helps build that bond between you, ensuring that each of you gets a chance to be the center of the universe. 

Until next time. 

Mistress Cynnara