Cynnara Tregarth

That’s right, today we’re going to talk about male pleasure. I know most people out there are probably thinking– just insert cock into mouth and suck! But that’s not all there is to that. There are ways of increasing a man’s pleasure sexually in areas not too dissimilar to the female’s. So today, we’re going to talk about his erogenous zones- including his mind!Men are easier to arouse, make no doubt about that. But at the same time too, they have a variety of intensities they can experience if given the chance. I’ve made men come with not even touching their cock except at the last moment, giving them the release they needed. I’ve aroused men through a sexy story to the point they ask to come. The idea here is that we take a male’s pleasure just as important as our own. 

First- kiss him. Let him know that you care and that you want that type of intimacy from him. Make it a slow, lingering kiss that starts lightly, then slowly deepens. He’s going to want to make the kiss his own, but this is when you take charge. You’re responsible for HIS pleasure. 

Second- as you kiss him, touch him with light, caressing strokes. Just as he did to you, it’s your turn to do for him. Stroke his hair, his cheeks, his jawline. Revel in his masculinity. As you lightly touch his body, let me know by touch and words just how much you adore him and how he is for you. 

Third– if he keeps trying to interfere– tie his hands above his head and out of the way. This is for HIM, and he’s going to have to learn how to take it. LOL Now, once you’ve made it clear that this is for him and he’s not to touch you- go back- touch him, stroke those nipples that are major erogenous zones on his body. Watch how his nipples tighten and react to not just your fingers, but to your moist, warm mouth. Be prepared, you might hear whimpers from your male if you’ve never done this before. It’s definitely an empowering moment. 

Fourth– now you’re going to kiss down his body, letting your hands lead the way. Just like he did for you, you’re going to explore his ribs, his nipples, his bellybutton, and more. Do NOT touch his genital area. It’s time for some lovely teasing! 

Fifth- keep talking to him. Show him how much you love touching him, pleasing him, making him moan with desire. How it turns you on. This is the time to start telling naughty, sexy stories. Most men love to hear a woman say sexy, erotic things, especially when they’re backing up the words with actions. Its reaffirms to a male that he’s wanted and needed and that he’s important. Believe it or not, men need to hear that AND they must feel that. They’re all about the action! 

Sixth– peel off those offending pants and undies. It’s time to massage from his feet up. Take the time to massage his muscles with both heavier and lighter touches. When you’ve done the outside of the thighs, go back and work your way in…make sure that you avoid that one area he desperately wants you to touch. We’re not ready for that just yet. 

Seventh- if you have lube on hand, now’s the time to get it. Just a bit on your hands, rub it together and then slowly cup his balls. Massage them in light strokes, making sure that your fingertips graze the perineum area behind his balls but before his anus. Men will tense at first, but then the sensations will let them relax because it feels ever so arousing to them. 

Eighth– now it’s time to start on either side of the cock and stroke up to the hip and back. Massage the area around the cock, letting your hands slide over it as you gently kiss and lick his balls. Men will normally at this point beg and offer you anything if you’d just suck on their cock. Do NOT give into them just yet. Remind him that you’re in charge of giving him pleasure, not him. Be warned, he’ll threaten, he’ll growl, and he’ll beg. He’ll beg lots. 

Ninth– with a bit more lube on your hands, slowly grasp the base of the cock. Don’t be surprised if his hips suddenly buck under you. That’s to be expected. They’re thinking joy ride– you’re thinking sexual torture. Remember, if he’s tied– you’re winning this pleasure round! Gently squeeze the base of the cock, then with both hands, fingers intertwined, slide up to the head of the cock, before tightening your grip slightly and going back down. Repeat this process a couple of times, watching how his body wants you to increase the pace. Don’t though. Keep it slow and even. Keep the pressure just enough to have a bit of friction but not so hard that it hurts. 

And next week– we’ll move onto a bit more of the teasing and tempting of your male! 

As always, 

Mistress Cynnara